I'm hoping you could help me with something bothering about a potential relationship.Power imbalances in relationship is a major red flag for me, and I see quite a few in my synastry chart with a guy I am about to start a relationship. I am the outer circle in the chart.
I feel that I will be invested more in the relationship than the other person. Most of my personal planets affect his relationship house, but not the other way around. Also, the nature of the pluto contact, SN synastry, nodal contact with the moon show that I would be the one obsessing and moving/holding onto the relationship, and he would just coast along. There is also heavy focus on our moons. Our moons seem heavily debilitated, and with Neptune involved there's bound to be crippling illusions.
Does the charts indicate that the guy is attracted/interested in a romantic relationship, or is the attracted not there?
The most troubling thing is our composite chart. There is such a heavy focus on the 8th house, mars conjunct saturn, sun in 6th house, NN in 12th house. Heavy stuff, this does not seem like a light-hearted relationship.
To me this feels like a fated even karmic relationship. I feel like I know him from another lifetime, I just can't shake this feeling. But I don't think he sees it like that, at least the charts don't seem to indicate any such thing. All of these add up to an imbalanced relationship.
Am I reading too much into the charts, or is there something that validates my feelings?
It would really help me if I can get an objective view of this situation.
Thanks!